If we remembered that loneliness once meant oneliness, how might we begin to reimagine how we love, work, and share a world?
Monika Jiang is a writer, speaker, and experience designer, previously Head of Curation and Community at House of Beautiful Business, featured in Fast Company, and on stages from TEDxPotsdam to Cannes Lions International Festival of Creativity.
Modern loneliness is not only what you think it is.
It lies beneath our constant overwhelm, stress, anxiety, depression, rising burnout rates and declining friendship rates. Inside our workplaces and organizations, hidden in workaholism and disengagement, and the myth of self-reliant leadership. In our relentless self-optimization culture and influencer syndrome, AI relationships, and the attachment economy. Within the design of our cities and in the abandoned countryside. There’s political loneliness, in the longing for a shared reality that no longer exists, in polarization, in the populisms that organize that longing into fear. And ecological and spiritual loneliness, in climate fatigue and anxiety, in new-age spirituality filling the space that shared ritual left behind, in the longing to believe in something greater than ourselves.
Once you are willing to see it, loneliness is everywhere. We built our world from the fear of it.
Oneliness is a response to it.
A naming of the simple and profound truth that we have always been alone and in relationship, that we deeply interdependent, and that loneliness is personal and universal, structural and political and systemic, all at once.
A response to remember and reimagine our fundamental relational nature, and to live from it as a principle and a philosophy.
In how we gather. In how we work. In how we lead. In how we build.
That is what this work is about.
Past Projects
Explore a curated collection of our past work, where imagination meets strategy. Each project reflects our drive to deliver thoughtful, effective solutions.
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The Atlas Project
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The Echo Project
Essays & Podcast
Essays and conversations tracing Oneliness through the structures of contemporary life — artificial intimacy and AI companionship, the overburdening of romantic love, what productivity culture does to our capacity for care, how cities are built for convenience rather than encounter, what faith and ritual carry that secular modernity has lost.
Speaking
Keynotes on loneliness as a structural condition — for organizations, cultural institutions, and festivals navigating the future of work, technology, and human relationships.
L'Oréal Professional · Pullman Hotels · Phoenix Group · P150 · Nebenan Stiftung · TEDxPotsdam · The Conference · House of Beautiful Business · Unfinished Festival · Future Days · The Merode
Shared Table Dinners
Shared Table Dinners are local rituals around the questions of Oneliness — how do we want to live in relationship with ourselves, with others, with friendship, love, nature, technology, the cultures and structures that shape us? A civic act in the most intimate form of community as practice.
Initiated in Berlin. Available for organizational commissions, leadership retreats, and festival programming.
Daily Connect
A daily 15-minute virtual practice informed by social neuroscience research, where two people meet, reflect on a moment of difficulty and gratitude from their day, and listen deeply without interruption or advice. In other words: an embodied practice of Oneliness.
For speaking, Shared Table commissions, or collaborations, get in touch!
Looking forward to hearing from you.