One on Oneliness

Let’s work together 1:1

Something between sparring partner, coach, creative collaborator, and the friend who knows your work well enough to tell you the truth about it.

Develop Your Talk

From the first rough idea to a talk that is ready to give. We work on the argument, the narrative arc, the embodied delivery, and the presence that makes an audience feel something rather than simply receive information. It is about finding the version of you that is most alive on stage and building the talk around that.

Narrative & Positioning

Clarifying what your project is actually about, who it is for, and how to talk about it in a way that is both honest and compelling. Finding the language that carries your thinking without flattening it. Developing your positioning across platforms — what you say on a website, in a bio, in a pitch, in a conversation at a conference.

Your Hosting Playbook

For anyone starting a community event series, a dinner practice, a circle, or a recurring gathering of any kind. We design the format together: the opening, the question at the center, how you hold the room, how you close it. You leave with a practical outline and philosophy for your own hosting practice, grounded in the Oneliness design principles but shaped entirely around your context, your community, and your voice.

Communications & Community

The practical tools for bringing your work into the world: how you write about it, how you show up on social media without losing the depth, how you build an audience that is genuinely interested rather than passively following. Email strategy, content rhythms, the specific platforms that suit your work and how to use them well.

Why work with me

My approach is not credentialed in the conventional sense. I sense into what is shifting before it has a name. I think across philosophy, social science, and lived practice. I work with creativity and genuine play. I bring the care of a community organizer and the precision of someone who takes ideas seriously. I will not flatten your thinking to make it more legible. I will help you find the form that carries it.

I work best with people who are building something that doesn't quite fit existing categories — who need a thinking partner willing to go to the intellectual depth of the work AND help them show up for it in the world.

More about me.

How it works

We start with a free 20-minute call to understand what you are building and whether working together makes sense. Sessions are 90 minutes (online)one-off or in a package of three or six depending on what the project needs. Every session moves between the intellectual and the practical. Most sessions are both at once.

One 90-minute session. Good for a specific question, a talk in preparation, or a first deep conversation about a project in progress.

Single Session (90 min.) — € 220,00

Over four to six weeks. For a project that needs consistent thinking partnership across multiple dimensions. Includes written notes and resources after each session.

Three Sessions (3 x 90 min.) — € 580,00

Over eight to ten weeks. The full working partnership — from intellectual foundation to practical tools. For someone building something from the ground up or making a significant shift in how they present and position their work.

Six Sessions (6 x 90 min.) — € 1050,00

  • “Collaborating with Monika was truly enriching. She not only shared her knowledge and expertise but also helped me connect to my own unique voice.”

    Kathy K.

  • “How gentle and kind a human and teacher you are. It feels wonderful to learn with you.”

    Christina T.

  • “A brave space where authenticity is welcome and where even silence becomes a profound way of being present.“

    Maxim T.

Not sure yet? Drop me a line and we’ll take it from there.